Award winning dancer, Kafayat Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, has revealed that she and her husband, Joseph Ameh, are no longer together.
She made this revelation while speaking about divorce and separation in a video she shared on her Instagram page today, January 11.
According to her, marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies but that wasn’t the case for them so they decided to go their separate ways.
Her words,
“I have always wanted to see my ex be the best version of himself and even breaking up the marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really are supposed to be. Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place that God wants us to be and mine really did not work out that way.
“Rather than looking at somebody as a problem, you could be the problem of that person. Being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you are not supposed to be in that space.
“So, there was a lot to learn and there is still a lot more to learn. I want to express that and motivate you to understand that life is not all about reaction to the world; it is not about reacting to what you want to say or what the world wants to hear; what the world wants you to be or what the world wants you to wear; what the world wants you to look like or get married.”
The couple got married in 2012 and have two kids together.
Watch her speak below,
