Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I thought to salute you, my superwoman. I pray God will give you more grace and reward you for your good works. I always feel happy seeing your articles. It’s not easy seeing a beautiful soul that stands firm and promotes chastity on a daily basis, especially in this new age and the depravity globally. May God continue to empower you in Jesus name.
Chinenye
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
While thanking you for the wonderful job you have been doing on promoting sexual purity, I think schools should have a curriculum or weekly social gathering to emphasise the importance of sexual abstinence and purity. The consequence of doing otherwise is seen in the way it’s cutting short the bright future of too many girls. May God bless you for all you do for this generation, our amiable mother. May goodness and mercy be your portion all the days of your life in Jesus name.
Ijeoma
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
Sincerely ma, you are doing a great job. May God bless you for always speaking the truth. However, I want to suggest that you should not limit this advice to the girl child. The boy child also needs advice. Please work something out so that boys are also included. God bless you.
Oluwafemi
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I am 19 years old and still a virgin. However, in the last few months, my girlfriend has mounted serious pressure on me to have sex with her and I really don’t want to. Please, I need your advice.
Obinna
Dear Obinna,
I congratulate you for being wise enough to preserve your life, because any form of lust or ungodly sex fights against your soul, which is where everything we do with our lives comes from (I Peter 2:11). Now, what happens when the soul is weak or polluted? The result is a life of bondage and slavery under the devil who is meant to be permanently under your feet. I tell you, a real man is one who cannot be controlled by that which he should be a master over. Men, please think about this. Besides, why do you want to get yourself embroiled in an emotional and spiritual quagmire, which could hamper your development and growth at a time when you should be concentrating on your studies and laying a solid foundation for a successful life? I don’t know your financial capability at the moment. However, this lady would expect you to take care of her material needs as well as her emotional needs. This will drain you and deprive you of the much-needed comfort to pursue your education. What if she gets pregnant? Are you ready to have a baby? Why go through the stress of being a baby father or having blood in your hands as a result of terminating a pregnancy? You need to be wise, my friend! Once you get into it, I’m afraid you become unstoppable and eventually give the devil too much access to your life.
The devil has turned many girls and women into weapons of mass destruction because they refuse to have a deep relationship with God and have a grip on their souls. The devil takes advantage of their superficiality and imbues them with all sorts of bad spirits that they might not even be aware of. There are vamps who could divert the course of a man’s destiny.
Now, can you imagine what happens to a man who would sleep with anything in a skirt? He’s finished because he’s sleeping with multiple partners with probably a legion of demons. What a waste of life!
I tell you, a lot of men would have fared better in life if they guard themselves jealously. Many guys are groaning and will never fulfil destiny because of their father’s wicked wife or a strange woman somewhere.
You will be shocked to discover the pain and confusion your celebrity role models with uncountable girlfriends and baby-mamas are secretly dealing with.
Try and convince your friend to stay chaste but if she won’t stop troubling you, please run away from her before she gets you into trouble. You never can tell the destiny you carry and what it requires to manifest in full force. Would the biblical Joseph have become the prime minister of Egypt at such a young age if he succumbed to Mrs Potiphar? No!
May the spirit of God overshadow the life of every man reading this and deliver every confused girl in Jesus name. Amen!
I invite you to follow me on Facebook – TEMILOLU OKEOWO and Instagram @ Okeowotemilolu.
Are you still engaging in premarital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open to all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.
FINAL WORD
Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in premarital and extra-marital sex. Stay chaste!
