In a video she posted on TikTok, the lady revealed that the Nigerian man’s name was Ikenna.
According to her, they connected on a dating app and eventually decided to meet in person after chatting for a while.
The British lady disclosed that on their first date, Ikenna was already speaking about marrying her and moving in together.
She said the second time they met, he asked her to delete the dating app they initially met on.
Recognizing these actions as warning signs, the lady emphasized that his demands raised concerns.
She said that from his actions, she deduced that Ikenna’s intentions were solely focused on obtaining papers rather than genuine affection.
Watch her speak below,
In other news, a Ugandan woman, Esther Kunsa, has turned to social media for advice as she plans to visit her Nigerian boyfriend but feels disheartened by his insistence that she cover all the travel expenses.
Esther shared her dilemma in a Facebook group on Sunday, July 17, 2023, seeking advice from Nigerian members.
According to Esther, she plans to visit Nigeria to meet her boyfriend’s family. However, she is unsettled by the fact that he’s asking her to bear all the travel expenses.
Her words,
“Hello Nigerian members. I need your help to discern. I’m in love with a Nigerian man. We are both Christians and we plan to meet soon in Nigeria in order for me to meet his family but the issue is that he wants me to pay for all the travel expenses as a way of proving my love.
“He didn’t even suggest 50/50 but 100%. He says he will pay me back once I get there. Is this the Nigerian way of loving a woman? In my country, no man would suggest such to the woman he loves. Men foot bills here until he marries you then you can begin to share the responsibilities as long as you’re also earning
“I feel discouraged. The risk of moving to a strange land with different cultures, language and food is already too much for me. Please help me understand or bounce back coz am on the verge of discarding the relationship but i fear to disappoint his children. They can’t wait to see me and I cannot tell them that papa is not paying for my trip
“Please note: He’s always been kind and gentle with me. We communicate everyday, every night. I want to hear from Nigerians especially. Thank you.”
