Dear ma,
I am your number one fan and I always look out for your articles. I also always add knowledge to what I know after reading your articles. A few days ago, Proverbs 31:3 came up in my spirit; I was contemplating it on my own. Lemuel’s mother told him, ‘My son, do not spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings!’ So, my spirit now began to think deeper. A thought told me that it actually means that there are many kings that are meant to be manifest but were cut off prematurely because of a loose lifestyle and inability to tame their manhood. The only thing I said to myself is, ‘I must maintain a strong boundary I must not cross and o God of heaven, give me grace to prevail for no man shall by his own strength prevail. God help me!’ You need to address the male folk as well as they’re ignorant of the hazards of ungodly sex! Please keep up your good work!
-Mat Labile
Dear ma,
Thank God for you. I have to work as a housemaid to fund my studies. Now, the head of the home, who is 75 years old, asks me to romance him anytime his wife is not around that he will solve my problems. I don’t want to get involved in such an act because I’m trusting God for a way out of my family’s hardship and other challenges. My question is: ‘Could it be the way out? Should I succumb to his pressure?’ Please what should I do?
My darling,
Believe me, I’m impressed with you because I tell you, most girls would readily jump at the offer, take the old man to the heights of ecstasy, “turn his head and use his head” like no man’s business. But I tell you, that’s the beginning of prostitution and trouble! If you didn’t fear God, you would have got into an affair with this old man starting by romancing him and then eventually sleeping with him. You will be taking the greatest risk of your life because while at it, the old man may have a heart attack as a result of too much ecstasy his health probably can’t cope with! Can you imagine what would happen if he died right on top of you?
Look, the devil is smart and knows how to cut great destinies short with seeming goodies that won’t last long. He knows how to ensure you get yourself into a situation where you lose the wondrous things God has assigned your destiny!
Can you imagine what would have happened to biblical Joseph if he slept with Mrs Portiphar so he could get some comfort? Most likely, the affair would have been discovered by his master and he would have died in jail! Thankfully, his fear of God and the spirit of God in him made him rebuff her advances and part of his submission was: “How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” Genesis 39:9. The fact that he chose God over momentary comfort was enough for God to give him the entire world if He wished to. And in any case, he became a prime minister in Egypt — a country where he was a slave at the tender age of 30! What a good, good God!
I know a good number of successful and prominent Nigerians who were domestic helps in their younger years but today, they not only have too much money they can’t exhaust for a lifetime, their names open doors for people around them!
My darling, please wait on the Lord and be of good courage! I tell you, you’ve scored high in heaven by not falling into the randy arms of your boss! Please expect a surprise package from God before the end of this month! Someone is coming to sponsor your education and assist you to have access to the best things in life, which a rare gem like you deserves without asking for anything in return! Congratulations my dear!
May uncommon glory and phenomenal rising be the portion of everyone who chooses God over the devil in times of trials in Jesus mighty name!
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