In a discussion with Arise TV news, the relationship consultant who is known for dropping controversial relationship advice, stated that the reason some of these married men decide to keep their out-of-wedlock kids a secret is for the purpose of peace.
According to her, they have this kids with their mistresses as a token of their love for them since they can’t offer them marriage anymore. So in order to give them something to hold on to, to prove their love for their mistresses, they choose to bare children with them.
However, these children have to be kept a secret so as to avoid chaos or disruption in their already existing marriage. When she was asked how such a situation would affect the child, Blessing stated that there’s a whole lot of other things that can affect a child so people should focus on the reality of things.
She also asks mistresses to respect the decision of their men when he says he doesn’t want to take their children home. Watch her speak,
