Dear Madam Temilolu,
I must commend your wisdom and understanding. Your intellectual prowess is simply extraordinary, but the most profound I must say is your teaching on chastity, your inspirational and motivational teachings on living a decent life. Your impact in the lives of single ladies and men is immeasurable. Through your teachings, you have transformed many lives and given many young people’s lives a meaning. You are greatly blessed, awesomely graced and equipped for greater accomplishment and success. May you not lose your reward.
Austin Onuoha
Dear Ma,
This is to thank you for your teachings on chastity, which is boosting my life. Sometimes, after praying and reading my Bible and the devil later brings discouragement in diverse forms, I run to your Facebook page and start reading them. I draw strength from them and constantly remind myself that there is no better life than a life with Jesus. I met you ma’am just at the right time in my life. Thank you for being a blessing to me.
Obiazi Godswill
Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I am 18 years old. I have a boyfriend and I love him so much and he loves me because he usually does things that make me happy. I don’t want a mere relationship with him; I want to be his life partner. I was a virgin before I met him. He asked for sex and I gave it to him because he was not happy when I refused at first. Please what should I do because he is asking for it again? I don’t want to have sex with him again and I don’t want to lose him. Please I need your advice because I don’t want to lose him or make him unhappy!
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters, why would you love anyone above yourself and your glorious destiny? Why would you please anyone to the detriment of your present and your future? If only churches slammed the consequences of ungodly sex in your faces at every single service, the power in the word of God would pierce your hearts, open up your spiritual understanding and envelope you with the spirit of God which would make you detest every form of sin.
How can anyone who is heavily yoked with the spirit and bondage of multiple, in fact uncountable, sexual partners make anything meaningful out of life and not go from trouble to trouble? How can one discover one’s life partner, destiny helper and helpmate when they are already confused and derailed because of an ungodly relationship?
The point is that once a life is polluted or contaminated through sexual intercourse with the wrong person, I tell you it only takes the mercy of God for such destiny to realign with God’s divine agenda.
At 18, where has my young lady reached in life for her to feel her boyfriend is God’s gift and the best that would come her way? How very naïve and myopic of her. Perhaps she’s not even in the university yet. We meet more and more people every day, and will always get carried away by different personalities. She has a few years to spend in the university where she would meet the good, the bad and the ugly. She will undergo the National Youth Service Corps scheme and meet more exciting and interesting guys, yet the world at large is waiting for her – church, work, social functions, I could go on and on!
My sweeties, what’s the rush? Do you know just that single act of sex could introduce uncontrollable lust into one’s life, and before you are 22 you find out you have slept with 30 or more guys? How can you accommodate such rot in your destiny? That your other friends are engaging in it and seem to be having a ball doesn’t mean you will also have a ball, neither will they get away with it.
The earlier you realise that we all have different destinies which carry diverse weights spiritually, the better! May the evil wise men of your father’s house not catch up with you in Jesus name!
Stop serving yourselves cheaply to the devil! If you can’t honour God with your body as we are told in 1 Corinthians 6:20, you might as well not expect much honour from men!
In Jesus name, may you not lose that which should give you the best life to a guy or man whose destiny or destination you know nothing about!
I invite you to follow me on Facebook – Temilolu Okeowo; Instagram – @Okeowotemilolu
Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576.
