The young man who contacted a popular relationship blog, PostSubMan, anonymously to share his predicament, said he has been heartbroken and dejected since he found out about his wife’s escapades.
He said he decided to marry his wife because he wanted her to redeploy back to their state of residence on grounds of marriage but it did not work out.
Following her inability to redeploy despite trying every possible means, they resorted to visiting each other occasionally till she finished NYSC and returned home.
On one fateful day while checking his wife’s phone, he discovered that she terminated two pregnancies for one Niyi, and they were planning to elope together.
He immediately confronted her with his findings and she arrogantly told him off, and said she slept with six different men during the course of her service year. She also disclosed that she purposely did not process her redeployment because of her lover.
The man, who is deeply broken by the revelation, said he is at a loss for what to do.
Read his lengthy message below,
“Good morning. My girlfriend went to serve last year and she was supposed to redeploy back to our base but it didn’t work. Because of the distance her father advised us to get engaged. Despite the fact that I! just got a job, I applied for loan and it was granted. We were able to do introduction and court wedding. So she was wearing her rings but she still wasn’t deployed. During the 1 year service she comes home and I go visit her.
She just finished serving a couple of weeks ago. I made sure our house got a new look as we were looking forward to our wedding by August next year. I notice my wife is always sad and disconnected. So I kept asking her what was wrong and she said she lost a friend. I started doing everything at home before I go to work so she can rest n| buy her small things evervday so she could be happy. It didn’t stop the dulliness.
Her mum called last night and while greeting me, she said she sent some prayers to our whatsapp that we should pray with it. By the time I remembered, my wife was sleeping. So I decided to pray alone, I checked my whatsapp for her mums message and it wasn’t there so I checked hers. That was when I saw the chats from one Niyi guy that she has been going out with in camp and she aborted 2ce for. They are even planning on running away together. Till now my body is still shaking.
I confronted her and she started shouting about why I was checking her phone, started cussing and after so much argument, she confessed she had slept with 6 guys in camp and she met the Niyi at her ppa that’s why she didn’t want to redeploy. I’m so sad and heartbroken. I can’t go to work. I have been crying. I loved her so much. I don’t know if I can ever forgive her. Please advise me. What should I do? Please Conceal my identity.”
