The lady, identified as @Gaialect on the microblogging platform, stated that she would like to have a separate room from her husband so that they can both decorate their rooms as they please and plan sleepovers.
According to her, marriage and living together already necessitate so much compromise, and she doesn’t see why they should also compromise their “sanctuary space.”
Her words,
“I think i will want separate bedrooms when i’m married. unless maybe if the bed is super big… no but even so like we can decorate our own rooms the way we want and have sleepovers… man i don’t know. i just feel like we would thrive in our spaces decorated the way we like.
Relationships, marriage and living together has so much compromise already. why compromise our own sanctuary space. if we have the same taste then okay, one bedroom would make sense but if we don’t then we shouldn’t compromise that imo. I bet you can tell physical touch is not my love language.
Imagine texting your partner from your separate rooms like “hey you up?” & they’re all what do u want (playfully) & you’re all… “can i come over. can u slut me out” LIKE PLEASE THATS HILARIOUZ not you wrapping yourself in that blanket & shuffling yourself down the hall to them.”
